I want my kids to live lives that display the Fruit of the Spirit. To be children who learn to be loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, gentle, faithful, good, and self-cotntrolled. To become adults, in the long run, who have been practicing these things for as long as they can remember.
Lord; this is your work. I pray you'd grow these in my child.
I know only the Spirit can develop those in them, but as a parent, I can be the gardener that provides the proper soil, light and water to ensure optimal growing circumstances.
I pray for wisdom to provide that, and for your Spirit to work in me to grow those so I can be a great model of what it should look like.